Have you ever met a guy that you happen to find extremely attractive? Not only attracted by his looks – but by his charm, personality, and confidence as well?
Does he make your heart beat faster and your entire body tingle with an electric excitement just to be near him? If so, and you are hoping to make him feel the same about you – then make a difference and be the change!
No need to sit idly by and wait for him to approach. If you adhere to the following top tips on how to make him fall in love with you – he will be more than willing to make you happy, just so he can call you ‘his’!
Top Tip #1: Be Confident -
Mimic his innate ability to ooze charm and sex appeal.
Being confident isn’t about being so cocky that you appear conceited – it is about believing in yourself! Believe that you have what it takes to satisfy this man, and believe in who you are as an individual. It will not go unnoticed!
Top Tip #2: Get To Know His ‘Circle’ -
To really become a substantial part of his life, it would be a great idea if you appealed to his friends and family. Don’t force yourself into his circles, but accept any invites and be as friendly and respectable as you can to everyone included.
Top Tip #3: Listen To Him -
If he is truly a man of his word, he will be honest with you. On the same token, if you are truly interested in him, you will respect and accept his choices in life and handle each personal dilemma he shares with you accordingly.
Be understanding of his current financial status, or simply be there to emotionally support him if he or someone he loves, is going through a difficult time.
Top Tip #4: Maintain Your Independence -
At the same time as you want to be there for him, also be sure that you maintain and continue forth with your own lifestyle decisions. Most men are attracted to a productive and ambitious woman – so prove to him that you have goals other than eventually settling down and having a family.
Top Tip #5: Take Your Time -
This tip may go against every grain in your body, but trust me – this works!
The sizzling fireworks that come with every new relationship WILL eventually subside.
So in the meantime, try not to share too much information about yourself too soon, and build sexual tension by prolonging any physical intimacy until you feel comfortable and can trust him.
Top Tip #6: Be Irresistible -
Once again, intrigue him with an air of mystery by not divulging an excess of personal information until your relationship grows stronger. Also, be as friendly and playful as possible.
Smile and complement your man, and show him that you know how to have a good time no matter what the situation!
Top Tip #7: Offer Your Suggestions -
Most men are just as nervous as you are for your first time together. Why not help relieve some of his stress by offering your own suggestions when making ‘date plans’? This will show that you are not only fun to be with, but that you actually have a personality and an opinion.
Suggest something creative and action-oriented that he would find interesting, something the two of you have never tried before, or possibly even invite him to your place (where you know you’ll be comfortable) and do something spontaneous.
Top Tip #8: Be The Best You Can Be -
It will be some time before your man can see you in sweats, no makeup, and hair a mess.
That time WILL come so long as your relationship matures, but in the meantime – exceed his expectations and make it your top priority to ALWAYS look and feel your absolute best, at all times!
These tips will have your man practically choking at the collar to have a chance with you. You won’t know what to do with yourself once you have both fallen head over heels in love!
WARNING:
Be sure you keep a look out for other women who have their eyes set on the same man. This DOES NOT entitle you to become possessive, jealous, and controlling however…
There are ways to deal with other women and have the man you both desire and deserve!
About The Author:Breanne Katherine works online as a self awareness and relationship coach; known for honest match-making skills, advice counseling for several love-stricken couples, and offering excellent modernized tips for today’s dating pool.
That’s interesting. I met this guy and I think he likes me,
I kinda like him as well and i hope to turn that fondness he has for me into something more… I hope these works, can’t wait to try..
ellen do what ever will suit you at the end just folllow ur heart my dear
Be considerate. At the end of the day, ask him about his day at work, how was his lunch. Demonstrate interest on his daily routines. Talk less about yourself.
hi….she is my class fallow nd i love with him but i dont no ,she loves with me when i look him.she all time looks mewhat his mind what she want,plz give me quick answer i am in wating………….?
WHAT did you just say?
are you speaking ebonics?
honstly. its obvious english isnt this persons first language. to be honest english is one of the hardest to learn. how inconsiderate to belittle them for unclear writing. xhsan shah, if you feel deeply for this one speak honestly, no one knows anyones desires till you ask them, if it is to be love, then speak openly of love,see where it leads
LMAO!!
What grade are you in? Can you please repeat yourself?
sorry his name zanaib for lahore
xhsan shah, if you feel deeply for this one speak honestly, no one knows anyones desires till you ask them, if it is to be love, then speak openly of love,see where it leads
how would i know if the man is telling the truth or really does love me, if we met in the net???
thanks
@ maria zamora…Hi, I don’t want to discourage you but you need to be careful. Anything can be said on the net, especially bunch of lies. I would suggest that you require a personal meeting before you have a relationship. It’s hard to invest emotionally and get hurt at the end. Be smart. God bless you!
as i am in 3rd year of a wonderful relationship, begun on “the net” i can only say, be honest, be careful. meet in public, have patience. if youve met in a chatroom that caters to specific wants,i.e christian, or kinky, it should give you a clue, if it was a “dating” site, lots of the members make a career of dating, as many as they can get. on some christian sites, beware of wolves in sheeps clothing, was an article done regarding the predators there using the “gullible” innocents that thought theyd found like minded individuals,only to get used and ripped off by their matches. its a big bad world out there, but there is someone for everyone,so persistance pays off
Hi just as he wrote.. see what it is that he does for you and find out does he mimic you and touch you with warmth and loving ways
isnt me who is madly in love or what but the guy doesnt answer some of my questions
do give him time men are not as receptive to questions as we are girl men are slow at times if he is’nt hiding any thing they want you to think they are lol some will just tell you what there doing or where there at.
how will i know that this guy cares about me he doesn’t call me despite he has my number
If he’s not calling you.. He doesn’t want to call you… You are better off moving on.. Finding someone who is as much into you as you are to them.;)
is he texting you
If there was a 9 and 10: It would say see Number 8. Just cause your going to the movies and not some fancy resturant look your best for him. He becomes more proud to be with you, since you take pride in your apperance than other women he’s been with.
I love those tips, and i will try to work towards them. But how do i get to know if the man is saying the truth about himself and if his love for me is geniue?
Esther, it takes time.. if he loves you you will know in time. Do not rush, you will lose him.
reply to maria zamora:
i knw how u feel cuz i met this one guy online n i gott the chance to gett to knw him n i luv his personality.he always says that hes really into me n that wnts me too.bt try nott to fall too into him cuz if anything happns then ull gett hurt. u could take an interest in him bt jst keep it cool.ive been tlkn n somewat dating him for bout 5 months n sadly sometimes we have our ups n dwns…thats something i really hate bt hopefully things gett better.best wishes to u.!!
I here ya ive been doing it for three years and I get up set it seems as tho I statrt the text in the morning and usually he finishes the ending text at night the text the time then he threw me for a loop said “I love you first”
If you treat him like he treats his car you will have not problems in any departments. His car is his first GIRLFRIEND and BFF! SMILE
I agree with this guy and i’m a girl they don’t want to be seen with a clunker
lmafo
really i like all the points here, it helps people in similar problem.
I met this guy, and i’ve faith on him, and i would try ur tips.
Wish he is really my Mr. Right.
the man should love u more han u loved him…
Okay so, basically I’ve done all of this… and he has a gf.
Idk if he’s leading me on, but I’m still interested.
Ehhhh, what am I to do now?
I dont want to break up his relationship, cause he seems genuine and true to his girl,
but if there are problems, should i do it like a band-aid and rip it straight off?
You’re the reason why I hate women
agree.
You’re a b*tch… HE HAS A GF! GO AWAY.
If he doesn’t love an care, about you, why would you want somebody like that? He has to Love you also, either more, or show some kind of interest. GOOD LUCK, AND MOVE ON!
Leave him alone- he has a girlfriend- totally not cool – find someone else – besides if he treats his girl bad – then he will treat u bad……
I don’t hate you… I hate him. lol.jp. if he isn’t leaving her immediatly after you two become any sort of involved, He’s a douchebag!! You deserve 100% of a man and his time and energy and love… If he is doing this with his current girl with you.. chances are he will do the same once he gets bored with you. Move on.. you deserve better…
It sounds like you may have a codependency problem here. One should never try to break into or break up a couple (unless they have stated that they are into polyamory and are interested in you joining them.)
If this is a pattern – the men you find interesting not being available, or using you in some way – then you should see if CODA is right for you. (You can google for it.) It’s a 12 step program for people who have problems with boundaries or relationships. There are meetings in most major cities; I am not sure how many countries.
This goes for on line relationships, too. Unless the person is moving into your area anyway (or visa versa), relationships work best in person. Once you feel comfortable with what they have said, and your gut says it rings true, meet IN PUBLIC (a restaurant, usually.) If at any time in the relationship they try to separate you from your friends or family, you are in trouble. (Well, if you agree that you could do better, and grow new friends, not just with his, that can be okay – some of us could do better.)
You aren’t a b*tch – you need to feel confident enough to know that you can find someone wonderful without having to look at men who are committed, will treat you wrong, or are emotionally unavailable to you. And the world is FULL of women who were treated badly enough at one time or other that their confidence, faith and trust is low enough to be in your shoes, one time or most of the time.
Hugs and healing
Wow Deborah! Great advice!
Nice advice Deborah *2 thumbs up*
If he is genuine and good to his gf why is he talking to you? you are retarded.
if it were you, would you want someone he may be flirty with, trying to get “into his pants”? some guys cant help but flirt. it massages his ego. is that what you want to be? his ego massager? get interested in someone who wants to be with you, im sure your own self esteem needs help. if you cant feel that its time to move on. seek therapy!
leave it alone and just step away and be a friend and if he has cheated on her he will cheat on you:(
met a man, i want to try dis edvise an c if i can score:}
i have a txtmate and we met i fall with himand pretty sure he does .. we often txt each other for almost 10 mnths now… he often told me take are, god bless you. i miss u and other sweet words but he is far away… lately i find him initimidated with me because of his meager income … i truly love him but lately i deleted his number because he is very slow
“a real man will go to the end of the earth for you”…regardless of income, i got my text buddy in my life because what for three years how devastated I was not able to bring any thing to the table.. he loves the fact that I told him the truth today we are so connected and now because of him i can better myself by going to school, now he understands why I never went to go see him. I am more in control of my feelings today and more in love today then I was before.
I cant hide the fact that I dont make money like him…I told the truth and did it ever set me free!!!! I love him more then any thing in the world he is my best male friend and also like the same as my mom and there born the same month Scorpios tell ya they kill me lol
All the women I’ve been with, pull out all their charms and tricks, and then gradually take them back. If you start out full throttle, you best keep it there, or we men will lose interest as you slow things down to an idle. When you all but stop, we get out, and move on.
Same Goes with “you men”…
not true… we all put our best forward and try what we call a Relationship when courtship has not been thought of…..be friends first then there is no harm no foul ya know im 46 been there and done that
i already tried this n yes i did all of it! every single one wayy before this article even came out, and this is only to teach u how to get him to fall in love wit u, not make him stay in love wit u. i did this, it worked. but it didnt last, so for everyone else…dont expect him to stay in love, men have many interests so just cuz u can get him to do wat u want in the beginning, it doesnt mean it will last.
you must be young a relationship takes work
i really love this forum….i relate so much…everything that ive read from this, is very
much alike with my situation before… actualy im done doing some of those things listed there ,and it really works… but im also in a relationship where in i got no choice but to stay…so i let go of that someone that i guess im really in love with….dah!!!!so sad!!!!!!!!!
i really love the guy and i badly miss him now that his gone…i guess he thought that i dont love him at all…but the truth is; i love him so much more than he ever know and i care so much for him….what should i do???????? how can i show him how much i really care??????????
maybe start out as friends and be cool and be there for him and eventually if he feels the same for you- he will come back but stay happy- noone wants someone who is miserable, jealous and has no life- start communicating again and slowly take it from there – its important to remember to be happy within- be fun to talk to and dont let it turn into a booty call thing…. Good luck to you
If you took him for granted you have to start over. That is only if he says yes. If he does not then just be friends. He might regain trust and interest in you.
get with his friends and ask if he feels the same a just straight out tell him
I have a very demanding man in my life but i love him dearly what should i do about this situation?
depends on How demanding… if he’s over the top, he’s a cheater, always looking for an excuse to cheat.
get a back bone and dont let him get the best of you…. you dont need to hurt for love
Hi…i just need some advices right now..what will i do if my boyfriend today is attracted to other girl now? i really really love him..
You may really really love him, but he doesn’t really really love you. You deserve Better… dump his ass…Mark my words in three months or less he will want you back… DONT let him come abck… this boat has sailed on to better things.;) good luck!!
Why are you wondering if he get attracted to someone else. You need to build up you self esteem. Do you not think you can get someone else? Give yourself credit and know that you are an attractive, amazing woman and any man would thank God to be in your life.
listen to faith evens “let it go”
thabitha its not ur place to tell someone leave that guy u shold just guide her only that willl be her decision what she want at the end
love this forum. relate much of this.
The Top 8 are quite good, very true and helpful. I would like to add one more (Top 8 Plus 1?) Trust. After all is said and done and you are in that wonderful relationship, you and he, have to have trust. In everything. Trust that you will do what you say you will do. Trust that you will agree to talk things over first, before a problem can be created. Trust that you can both go out separately and not Worry about what the other one is doing. Cheating? If that word comes up… Trust is in doubt. If you are dating, date and have fun and don’t worry about trust. There is none. You are dating. No strings, no commitments, just fun dating. If you are getting serious, if you are thinking marriage, Trust. And marriage is two ways. Yours and, believe it or not his. He gives up a Saturday to go to the mall with you….. You think that is HIS idea of fun? No, that is YOUR idea of fun. So on Sunday, people coming over to watch the big Football game (you don’t quite care for or “get” the game), so not quite your idea of fun but, is it worth an argument? Of course not! For God’s sake he just spent Saturday schlepping around a friggin mall with you. Keep your friends, let him keep his friends and have friends together. Something you don’t hear today is “A true loving long-lasting relationship/marriage, ISN’T EASY. It is sometimes HARD WORK. But every single second of it is so worth it because that is still the guy who makes you smile, makes your heart pound so hard in your chest with love, is the father of the children you had together. He IS that be all, end all Prince Charming you fell in love with so long ago. Time just sometimes puts a little fog in your eyes and you can’t see it quite so clear. Clean your eyes, remember That Handsome, Sexy, WOW Who is that? person, and put your trust in him and you will come out just fine. 42 years of being together with my husband, 34 of them married…. He is still my One and Only, My Love, My Heart, The Only one for me, the Only one I TRUST with my Heart. And if you walk in to marriage thinking you can always get out of it easy enough…… turn around and walk away now. Why bother yourself, or him, or any kids you may have (and hurt in the process). Just walk away. All of you have a nice weekend. Now that I have said all of this I think I’ll surprise him with breakfast in bed! :~)
OMG one word Beautiful well put
i been in love with this married guy for 1 year an some months. we have so much in common but he confuses me . we used to have so much fun but everytime hes about to go on vacation he gets this thing in head that im gonna mess around on him i have never been so happy in my life but he talks about his wife my boyfriend so much that its sicking he shuts me out for no reason then tell me its my fault. cause he knows im gonna cheat i dont even have sex with my boyfriend cause i want to be with him now hes leaving again now he says its over. he is mad cause i havent got out my relationship yet so he can come an b with me but he made no atempts either i dont want to b no bodies out . what should i do cause im so confuse.
Face it. You are just a jump off. Someone that he can tell his frustrations and vent. He is not going to leave his wife and you will be the person he gets tired of. He is already setting you up by accusing you of cheating. Wake up and see him for what he really is.
please wake up u wont be happy in live if u destroy someone else life even whatever is the reason u fallin love with him bcz he has a complete life already
Wow, this is great.Keep up your good work.
i am in love with a man who also claims to love me though we are not dating,can’t make up what he wants from me am confused.help me
He is messing with your mind. Stop the madness and let him go and find someone who wants a relationship with you.
ok i met a guy on the net talkd then txt then called eachother he new same people i did and lives close to me we finally went on a date but he got a lil drunk then we talked forever and had a good time, we did was kiss its been a few days and he hasnt txt me if feel bad what should i do i felt like everything went great that day
Face it you need to explain to him what was going on with you. No man wants a drunk for a girlfriend. They might not say it but they want someone other men would want and it is not a drunk woman.
I met a guy last year, we went out for a few months, then he stopped coming he said he knew how I was feeling and that I deserved someone better than him, over the next several months he’s send me text messages or email asking how I was doing. See, a couple months after he had left, I lost my daughter. About a year went by and he sent me an email asking if Id see him, that he regretted letting me go and wanted to know if we could try and see what happens again, that he missed me. Well, so happened when I got back in town he ended up going in for surgery, well we haven’t seen each other much but he did venture out to take me for dinner about 4days after surgery, which wasn’t good for him . We have seen each other a couple times as well as a lunch when he wanted me to meet his daughter. We are in touch everyday, but until he is completely recovered it is hard for him to be up and out for to long a time. It’s just been 2 weeks since surery. My question : how do I know if he is really interested in a relationship, or how long should I wait to give hime time to let me know?
Give him time to fully recover from his surgery. After he gets back on his feet you will see the real him. He will either want you or not.
my ex-wants me in his life and am married and he’s married too. he is not in love his wife. he said that accidentally married because she is pregnant. he said he love her but not in love. he is in love with me ever since were in kuwait. we had a good time together him and i were in kuwait only we lost communication because he was working melitary overseas. after 8 years we havent seen each other. i sent him email to let he know i am here in the united states and sent me email after 2 days gave me phone no. to call him. i call him. i told him am married i have been here for 6 years. an now he wants me ih his life.
So, I met this guy on the dating site. Before we even met we talked over the phone and texting each other everyday, and since I had a busy schedule and so as him we waited almost a week to see each other on our day off. Once we went out, I got to see the real him..He was a nice guy, really sweet, he said that he was at his point in life to have a relationship and build a family. So, was I, but I didn’t feel anything for him. I know he really liked me because, right after our date he’s been calling me and texting me non-stop everyday. I know he still wants to see me. But, I dont feel him. Like when I first kissed him, it’s just the sparks wasn’t there. I’ve been ignoring him right after our date. Thinking he’ll just give up, but he doesn’t. Dont know what to do. I mean I finally meet a man who’s actually interested in me, but I’m not.
Be honest and tell him you just want to be friends.
thank you so much for the tips. i really appreciated ur effort to share your good ideas in relationship…
I love it thank you again…
can i request please post new tips for a healthy relationship, coz i don’t to lose my love of my life, he has a lot of gfs b4, but he said to me i am the one woman in he’s heart, my mind, soul….
so please give some tips on how to become long and last relationship….thank you so much…god bless you….
I really enjoyed, great advice and I beleive if followed can really help a gal out.
I’d like to add that the less you see other women as the “enemy” if treating them with kindness and less concern -this confidence is what will attract the right guy anyway.
I always say if he thinks the grass is greener on the other side – well dont the the door hit his backside on his way out! lol
What if he says he loves you and you’ve been married for 9yrs and find out he has been txting your best friend? All messages are deleted so not sure what they are saying.. Any advise