One of the most painful experiences for a woman is for a man to betray her trust. If you’re experiencing the pain over your man lying, cheating or breaking up with you, I want to let you know that I know how difficult this feels for you right now.
Just like you, I’ve experienced men lie and betray me at the deepest level. It felt like my heart is being ripped to shreds. I’ve cried for days on end. Nothing could prepare me for this kind of pain. It’s like a light went out inside of me. What do you do with all the anger, pain, and confusion? Is there a way to find some answers to why your man lied to you or why he cheated on you?
Although there is no excuse for lying or cheating, understand why men lie could be your first step to healing from your pain. I know you’re wondering why men have to lie, why can’t they just come out and tell you the truth.
The truth is, the majority of men would like to tell their partner the truth, but they are scared of a woman’s emotions. It sounds like a cop out. It sounds like being weak. But men are generally less able to face emotions than women are. This is why some men have deep secrets thoughts they’d like to open and share, but have a very difficult time doing so.
Because they have a hard time facing their emotions, they hide behind it instead. This is obviously no way to deepen the communication between you. I know you wished your man communicated what he needed from you before he lied to you. But maybe there is a chance to get him to open up now and tell you what is really on his mind.
Before you focus on trying to get him to open up, make sure you take care of yourself. You’re at a really vulnerable place right now and it’s best to get the right information on how to make him open up and share his inner thoughts with you so that it doesn’t cause you further harm.
There are deep secrets your man wish he could tell you, secrets he wished you knew. What goes on inside his mind and how he really feels about you might shock you and you could learn how to guide him into that place where he shares his deeper feelings for you.